Why Is "Unromance" by Erin Connor the Must-Read Rom-Com of 2025?

Looking for a fresh, funny, and self-aware romance novel that flips the script on classic love stories? "Unromance" by Erin Connor is quickly becoming a favorite among rom-com fans-and for good reason. This debut novel brings together two unforgettable characters, a pile of romance tropes, and a sparkling Chicago winter setting for a story that’s both hilarious and heartfelt. Let’s dive deep into what makes this book so special, why you’ll want it on your shelf, and where you can buy and discuss it!

What Is "Unromance" About?

At its core, "Unromance" is a romantic comedy about Sawyer Greene, a once-bestselling romance author suffering from writer’s block after a painful breakup, and Mason West, a TV heartthrob who’s just been dumped and wants to swear off love. Their worlds collide (literally) when they get stuck in an elevator-a classic meet-cute moment that sets the tone for the rest of the novel.

Sawyer, jaded and cynical about romance, sees their encounter as nothing more than a one-night stand. Mason, ever the hopeless romantic, can’t help but wonder if fate is at play. When they keep running into each other, they strike a deal: Sawyer will help Mason "ruin romance" for himself by exposing him to every cheesy rom-com trope, hoping to cure him of his romantic tendencies. In return, Mason will help Sawyer break free from her creative rut.

But as they embark on their series of "not-dates," the line between friendship and something more starts to blur. The rules are simple: no sex, no falling in love. Of course, rules are made to be broken.

What Sets "Unromance" Apart from Other Rom-Coms?

Meta Rom-Com Magic

What makes "Unromance" stand out is its playful, meta approach to romance tropes. Erin Connor doesn’t just use clichés-she pokes fun at them, celebrates them, and turns them inside out. Each chapter even starts with a witty definition of a classic rom-com trope, giving readers a knowing wink and a nudge. If you love movies like "When Harry Met Sally" or "Notting Hill," you’ll appreciate the many nods to rom-com classics sprinkled throughout the book.

Smart, Swoony Banter

Sawyer and Mason’s chemistry is off the charts. Their banter is smart, quick, and genuinely funny, making their journey from strangers to friends to lovers feel authentic and engaging. The "not-dates" are full of laugh-out-loud moments, but also give space for real emotional growth.

Diverse, Relatable Characters

Sawyer is a bisexual woman whose past relationships, including one with her ex-girlfriend, shape her outlook on love and trust. Mason is more than just a pretty face-he’s kind, vulnerable, and working through his own issues with authenticity and public image. The book features diverse supporting characters and explores themes like family expectations and self-acceptance without ever feeling preachy.

A Fresh Take on Familiar Ground

While "Unromance" leans into familiar romance territory, it does so with a fresh perspective. The story is set in Chicago during winter, adding a cozy, atmospheric backdrop to the couple’s adventures. The pacing balances slow-burn tension with enough action to keep you turning the pages.

Key Themes and Messages

• Breaking Down Romance Myths: The book asks: Can you really "ruin" romance? Or does love find a way, even when you resist it?

• Healing and Growth: Both Sawyer and Mason must confront their fears and insecurities. The story shows that vulnerability is a strength, not a weakness.

• Representation Matters: Sawyer’s bisexuality and her complex relationship with her family add depth and authenticity, reflecting real-world experiences.

• Humor as Healing: The novel uses humor not just for laughs, but as a way for characters to cope, connect, and heal.

What Are Readers Saying?

Readers and reviewers are loving "Unromance" for its witty writing, charming leads, and clever twist on the genre.

“This romance was just so much FUN. The author, Erin Connor, is able to skewer all the tried and true romance tropes while also reminding the reader why they love them so much.”

“Unromance feels like a fresh take on tired tropes and brims with charm. I loved the well-done bisexual representation and the setting of Chicago.”

“The protagonists are interesting and well-drawn, with relatable flaws and past baggage. The writing style is fluid and nicely paced; fast enough to pull readers along but slow enough to draw out the tension and get to know the characters.”

Should You Read "Unromance"?

If you enjoy:

• Romantic comedies with a twist

• Smart, self-aware humor

• Characters who feel real and relatable

• LGBTQ+ representation

• Stories set in vibrant, urban settings

Then "Unromance" is for you. Even if you’re not usually a fan of romance novels, the book’s fresh take and sharp wit might just win you over.

Where Can You Buy "Unromance" by Erin Connor?

Ready to add "Unromance" to your collection? You can purchase it from Bookdelico, your trusted online bookstore. Click here to buy your copy now!

Join the Conversation: What Did You Think of "Unromance"?

Have you read "Unromance"? Did you laugh, swoon, or see yourself in Sawyer or Mason? I’d love to hear your thoughts! Drop a comment below and let’s talk about your favorite tropes, moments, or characters.

What are your favorite romance tropes? Did Erin Connor’s approach make you see them differently?

Let’s keep the discussion going-Book Haven is your place to celebrate the stories that make us feel, laugh, and believe in love (even if we try to resist it).

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